Nicotine
Anonymous Pages
Tips for Gaining Freedom
from Nicotine Addiction
This brochure contains practical
suggestions for people new to not smoking
and new to Nicotine Anonymous. Used in conjunction with regular
attendance
at meetings and with practice of the Twelve Steps, they can help
you live
happily, free of nicotine.
1. It's not as hard as you
think. Once you begin to be honest with
yourself and to look at the facts about smoking, it will become
a pleasure
to remove this addiction from your life.
2. Square off with your smoking
habit. Look at it and size it up. Ask
yourself exactly what it is doing for you; then ask yourself what
it is
not doing for you. You can begin with your hair and work your
way down to
the tips of your toes. It is a medical fact that smoking affects
every
organ in the human body in a harmful way.
3. Look at quitting cigarettes as giving yourself a gift-a very
big gift.
You are giving yourself a better quality of life and, very possibly,
a
longer life. You are giving yourself a healthier body. You are
giving
yourself more self-esteem. Wrap all this in a package and took
at it for
the gift it really is, then "Go for it!"
4. Set a date. Make a commitment. Give it a try. Remember, it
is alright
if you don't succeed at first. Just keep trying. The only way
you can lose
is by ceasing to try.
5. Don't look at it as if
you are giving up something. This makes it seem
too much like a loss. What you are really doing is tossing something
out
of your life that has done you harm and doesn't belong here anymore.
You
are throwing away pure garbage. No longer are you going to allow
your
lungs to be a resting place for nicotine and tars.
6. Always keep a positive
attitude. After all, this is one of the most
positive things you've ever done. Stay away from negative people
and
worrisome situations.
7. Quit for yourself. Even
though your family and loved ones will benefit
tremendously from your quitting, it is you that will benefit most.
8. Treat giving up smoking
with the respect it rightly deserves. Become
willing to go to any lengths to remove it from your life. If you
are not
willing, try praying for the willingness. This usually works.
9. Look up the word 'nicotine'
in your dictionary and write down the
definition in big letters: "A poisonous alkaloid used as
an insecticide.'
Put it where you can see it.
10. Don't say "I'll
take my chances' and continue to smoke. They are not
ours to take. We didn't give ourselves life and we don't have
the right to
"take our chances" on giving it away. That is up to
God.
11.. Don't fool yourself
by saying you have too many pressures in your
life right now to give up cigarettes. If you are smoking, this
in itself
is a pressures very great pressure. Every day is a gamble and
your life is
at stake. By getting nicotine out of your life, other things will
become
easier to handle. You will feel better about yourself and you
will have
more energy. You will have accomplished something more meaningful
than all
the money and material objects you could ever acquire. You will
have given
yourself what no one else could give you. You will no longer have
the
pressure of being a smoker.
12. Don't use the excuse
that you might gain weight to justify your
continuing to smoke. Even if you do gain a little, the fact that
you will
be more active and will get more exercise should counteract any
weight
gain. Remember, overeating, not stopping smoking, causes weight
gain.
13. Plan to do things that
will keep your mind off smoking. Sometimes our
minds can be our worst enemies. They will tell us that we need
a cigarette
for just about any reason that is handy at the time. By doing
things like
going to the movies in the non-smoking section, munching on corn
or
sucking on a lollipop, we can keep our minds occupied and get
a break. Go
to museums and other places where smoking isn't allowed. Swimming
is a
good idea, too.
14. Quit smoking one day
at a time and think only about the part of the
day you are in. "I am not going to smoke before noon."
"I am not going to
smoke before three o'clock." Sometimes just do it one hour
at a time. This
is a lot easier than trying to quit forever.
15. Don't subject yourself
to smoky situations. If you do come in contact
with someone who is smoking, just say to yourself "He is
having the
cigarette I might be having"; then, be grateful you don't
have to have it.
16. While you are quitting.
Look at it as an investment. Once you have
quit for one hour, you have invested this hour in becoming a healthier
person. Now, invest one more hour Continue to add to your investment
hour
by hour. It will grow and become more valuable as the hours go
by. You
will begin to see and feel the rewards from this investment more
and more.
Protect and guard it just as you would a treasure.
17. Start being kind to yourself,
It is the beginning of a new way of life
for you and you are the most important one there. Treat yourself
with
respect and love and, remember, you are no longer filling your
system with
poison every few minutes. Breathe the clean air and breathe it
deeply.
Smell the different and wonderful fragrances. Begin to spend time
outdoors
close to nature. Many new sensations await you.
18. Don't get too angry.
If we are angry, our minds tell us we need a
cigarette to cope. Until your mind learns that it doesn't need
a cigarette
to cope, try to avoid situations that might be setting you up.
Avoid
certain people that may bother you. If there is a lot of tension
at work,
try to get a few days off. If you can't get some time off, quit
smoking on
a long weekend. Avoid, as best you can, things like getting stuck
in
traffic. Use a lot of caution. Anger can be very destructive.
19. Don't get too hungry.
It is amazing how our minds will tell us that
everything's wrong when all we really need to do is eat.
20. Don't get too tired. If we are tired, it is easy to become
irritated
and when we get irritated our minds will tell us that a cigarette
will
help. Our overall resistance becomes weak and it is easy to say,
"Oh well,
I guess I'll smoke."
21. Don't get too lonely.
It is good to know some people who are going
through the same thing. By going to Nicotine Anonymous meetings
you can
get phone numbers of such people.
22. You can remember these
four things by the word "HALT." Hungry, angry,
lonely, tired. If you feel you need a cigarette, check. Make sure
you are
not experiencing any of these.
23. Don't get too bored.
It is hard to just sit and not smoke. Keep busy.
Find things to do that you enjoy. Bike riding, hiking, swimming,
exploring
new places, trying new restaurants. This is the time to indulge
yourself.
24. Have something to fidget
with. We are accustomed to holding a
cigarette; being without one might leave our hands at a loss.
Get a small
rubber ball or a yo-yo. Play dough is good also, or a piece of
clay.
25. Have something handy
to put in your mouth. Life Savers are good, or
any slowly dissolving candy. Beef jerky and lollipops help, too.
Avoid
fattening foods like cookies. They don't last long and they fill
you up.
Experiment while you are still smoking to see what will relieve
the
craving. If Life Savers work, then stock up. Just a note of caution:
don't
use this type of substitute on a long-term basis.
26. If you always have a
cigarette with a cup of coffee, stop drinking
coffee before you quit smoking.
27. Don't drink alcohol while
you are quitting. Once alcohol is in your
system your defenses will diminish greatly.
28. Remember that the discomfort
you experience in the first 2 weeks will
definitely come to an end and you will never have to go through
it again.
29. Frequently give yourself
a pat on the back. What you are doing isn't
easy by any means. It takes a lot of guts to try to quit smoking.
30. If you are feeling pain
from withdrawal, let it become a lasting
memory to serve as a reminder of exactly how strong the drug nicotine
is
and how hooked you really are.
31. Remember, every minute
you were sucking on cigarettes they were
sucking on you. They were sucking the very life out of you. Don't
let them
have anymore.
32. Avoid the self-pity trap.
If we begin to feel sorry for ourselves, our
minds will tell us that we deserve a cigarette to make us feel
better.
33. Remember, if you just
keep trying, you will win. It is good against
evil and the odds are stacked in your favor.
34. Before quitting plan
your activities for the first few days after you
quit. This way you won't have to make too many decisions while
you are
withdrawing. At first, making decisions may be hard without a
cigarette.
35. If you are not going
to quit right away, then start cutting down. If
you smoke 2 packs a day and you cut back 1 cigarette a day for
a month,
you will be down to just 10 cigarettes a day. Some people, however,
have
found cutting back to be almost as hard as quitting.
36. Drink lots of liquids to help flush the poison out of your
system.
Orange juice is good because smoking depletes the vitamin C content
in our
bodies.
37. Remember, it is the first
cigarette that gets you started. It takes
only one. This is the one you don't have. You can always put off
lighting
that first one for a little while. Don't fool yourself and think
you can
start and stop at will. You can't. Many people have tried this
and gone on
to live the rest of their lives never to experience freedom from
nicotine
again.
38. Frequently remind yourself
about the differences you have noticed in
yourself. Things like: Your breath no longer smells like a dirty
ashtray.
Your teeth are beginning to lose their yellow color and look bright
and
clean. Your fingers aren't stained from tobacco. That sickly sounding
smoker's cough is disappearing. Your senses of smell and taste
are
returning. Your complexion is beginning to Improve. Your general
attitude
about yourself is better because you are beginning to really care
about
yourself.
39. Give it away. Whenever
you have a chance to give your experience,
strength and hope to another smoker, use it. This act of giving
will
insure your chances for staying off nicotine and give strength
to your
program. There is much reward in helping someone else to gain
freedom from
this harmful substance.
40. Have a follow-up program.
Don't assume it is over because you have
made it through a couple of weeks. Nicotine is very cunning. Continue
to
attend Nicotine Anonymous meetings. If there are no meetings in
your area,
help to get one started. It is very simple. All you need are a
place to
meet and a few interested people.
41. When you want to smoke, read this list of tips.
42. Go to meetings, go to meetings, go to meetings and don't smoke in between!